Comments on: Decisions Decisions. http://skrambled.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/decisions-decisions/ Our journey through infertility and beyond. Thu, 24 Dec 2009 09:54:59 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Cam http://skrambled.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/decisions-decisions/#comment-669 Cam Thu, 09 Jul 2009 08:26:18 +0000 http://skrambled.wordpress.com/?p=318#comment-669 Yip - you gotta trust yourself and go with whatever feels right for you..and if you don't know, you hang on until you do. We all need to build up a little momentum and only you will know when you are ready to launch into the unknown yet again...to take that chance no matter what happens...and you need to be strong enough at the time to be ready. Whatever you decide, I am sending you loads of love and light and strength and positive stuff...xx Yip – you gotta trust yourself and go with whatever feels right for you..and if you don’t know, you hang on until you do. We all need to build up a little momentum and only you will know when you are ready to launch into the unknown yet again…to take that chance no matter what happens…and you need to be strong enough at the time to be ready. Whatever you decide, I am sending you loads of love and light and strength and positive stuff…xx

]]> By: C http://skrambled.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/decisions-decisions/#comment-665 C Fri, 03 Jul 2009 14:21:34 +0000 http://skrambled.wordpress.com/?p=318#comment-665 Only you know when the time is right for you. You need to be at peace and try not have any doubt's or other stresses while cycling, it's hard enough to get through. A miscarriage puts a whole different spin on a pg, it takes away from the joy we should experience. I hear you on the announcement thing, I will not be making any pg announcements at all, I have learned the hard way, you would think 16 weeks was safe, not. Only you know when the time is right for you. You need to be at peace and try not have any doubt’s or other stresses while cycling, it’s hard enough to get through.

A miscarriage puts a whole different spin on a pg, it takes away from the joy we should experience. I hear you on the announcement thing, I will not be making any pg announcements at all, I have learned the hard way, you would think 16 weeks was safe, not.

]]> By: Baby Smiling In Back Seat http://skrambled.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/decisions-decisions/#comment-663 Baby Smiling In Back Seat Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:10:48 +0000 http://skrambled.wordpress.com/?p=318#comment-663 One thing I'd consider is whether pushing the FET back a month would interrupt the cycle after that (of course hoping that you don't need any other cycles). Many clinics in the U.S. won't cycle anytime around Christmas, so sometimes pushing things back can mean postponing the following cycle by two months. Otherwise, just do what you think is best. I certainly have postponed cycles for work reasons -- it's so intense to cycle that sometimes there just isn't enough energy for cycling and for big work responsibilities. Whatever you decide, good luck!! One thing I’d consider is whether pushing the FET back a month would interrupt the cycle after that (of course hoping that you don’t need any other cycles).

Many clinics in the U.S. won’t cycle anytime around Christmas, so sometimes pushing things back can mean postponing the following cycle by two months.

Otherwise, just do what you think is best. I certainly have postponed cycles for work reasons — it’s so intense to cycle that sometimes there just isn’t enough energy for cycling and for big work responsibilities.

Whatever you decide, good luck!!

]]> By: sweetshoney http://skrambled.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/decisions-decisions/#comment-661 sweetshoney Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:47:29 +0000 http://skrambled.wordpress.com/?p=318#comment-661 Hey there... Do what ever feels right for you! Listen to your heart... though it might sound like a cliche'there is much truth to it. Whatever decision you make will be the right one. hugs x Hey there…

Do what ever feels right for you!
Listen to your heart… though it might sound like a cliche’there is much truth to it.

Whatever decision you make will be the right one.

hugs
x

]]> By: samcy http://skrambled.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/decisions-decisions/#comment-660 samcy Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:28:13 +0000 http://skrambled.wordpress.com/?p=318#comment-660 *sigh* My friend, in my opinion I think that you just have to decide on a time and then do it. After so many disappointments it's not like we're going to look forward to treatment and we have to just take the leap and get on with it. It will work - sooner or later. Thinking of you. xxx *sigh* My friend, in my opinion I think that you just have to decide on a time and then do it. After so many disappointments it’s not like we’re going to look forward to treatment and we have to just take the leap and get on with it. It will work – sooner or later.

Thinking of you.

xxx

]]> By: Shaz http://skrambled.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/decisions-decisions/#comment-659 Shaz Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:55:27 +0000 http://skrambled.wordpress.com/?p=318#comment-659 Sian, nobody can tell you when is the right time to do this. Fertility treatment is so hard, even under the best circumstances so I'd be inclined to lean towards waiting that extra month if its going to give you a bit more peace of mind. And I so hear you and get what you're saying about announcing future pregnancies! Sian, nobody can tell you when is the right time to do this. Fertility treatment is so hard, even under the best circumstances so I’d be inclined to lean towards waiting that extra month if its going to give you a bit more peace of mind.
And I so hear you and get what you’re saying about announcing future pregnancies!

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