So on Wednesday I decided that I would like to have the D&C. So it was arranged for Thursday.
The reason I chose to do this was because I just did not feel like dealing with the bleeding. And I am so glad I did because of the bleeding I experienced before I went into theatre.
Warning: TMI!
The bleeding started just after I was addmited. The first really crap part was that it really came with no warning at all and so the linen on my bed had a spot or two on it. The nurses were actually so rude about it. They seemed really annoyed that they had to change the linen and asked me to ‘just move to another bed’ Then when I bled through my second pad they rudely just told me to go and fetch another gown and gave me another two pads…. They didn’t bother to close the curtains around my bed or anything.
The second crap thing is that when I went to the loo I passed a clot the size of my palm……This makes me wonder if the D&C was even necessary and also makes me think other bizarre thoughts.
OKAY: TMI over!
I had no physical pain or anything after the proceedure and I will see Dr J on 10th June for my POA. Now I just have to take my hormones so that my system can return to normal.
The only pain I have is the pain in my heart. I feel the emptyness of NOT being pregnant. I loved being pregnant. It was so nice to look after my body and nuture it so it could grow the baby. I know I will be pregnant again. I am more determined than ever before. I want to do my FET before as soon as I can.
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The emotional healing after an MC is what takes the longest! Sian, seriously, you need to complain about Dr J about your treatment at Linkwood as they are aware that there are some problems there. So please for everyone of us who’ve had a bad experience there (and there are many) please make a complaint.
Thinking of you during this time of healing.
(((hugs)))
That does sound awful Sian and I’m so sorry that you had to go through this. My heart aches for you guys.
Sending up lots of prayers
Hugs xxx
Oh my gosh Sian, that sounds horrible. Please complain to Dr J about that shoddy service from Linkwood and also complain direclty to the clinic – that is simply unacceptable behaviour from them.
I’m sorry your heart is sore, but you will heal and you WILL be pregnant again.
xxx
I’m sorry that they were so unkind, at such a tough time.
Take care.
I feel your pain Sian. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I’m so angry that you got such terrible service. I can’t believe they can be so insensitive. I agree with Shaz just mention it to Dr J. It’s important. Although I’ve always had great service there I know of a couple of ladies that were disappointed.
The pain in your heart will always be there, sometimes you hardly feel it but other times its all you’ll feel. (((HUGS)))
Sorry Sian ((hugs))
How awful the way they treated you. FWIW, my natural miscarriage started out just like that and kept going for about 10 hours- lots of big clots too. If my midwife hadn’t been able to stop the bleeding with herbs, I would have ended up in emergency. I think it was probably worth it